ok in paper mario and the thousand year door, in the original japanese dialog Vivian is called a "bishounen" or "pretty boy" what most people took this as was vivian was a cross dressing guy, but in reality in japan popular girls called girls who weren't as popular or as attractive looking "bishounen" as an insult because hazing or harassment involving one girl belittling another just based on their looks is very very common. I forget how they translated the insult into english because it's been years since I played but it was pretty much something along similar lines