It seems like (a fairly callous form of) training. I.E. He doesn't care about Akebono or Michishio, so he'll laugh them off, but he's trying to break Kasumi's habits because he does care what she says about him. It seems like an undeniably abusive form of the "I can fix him/her" idea.
Yeeeaaaaahhhh that's a super cringy way of habit breaking. So, you like a girl but don't like her potty mouth, so you decide to literally break her mind so it'll bend to your ideals?
Yeeeaaaaahhhh that's a super cringy way of habit breaking. So, you like a girl but don't like her potty mouth, so you decide to literally break her mind so it'll bend to your ideals?
What is she, a dog?
If you keep doing it, yeah, pretty much. But if it's only once and you make it up to her right after, I would say it's called for.
Call me ruthless, twisted or anything you want. But I can't stand seeing people saying whatever they like without knowing how it might hurt others. Making the point clear to see is what, in my opinion, we should do.
That makes me even more despicable because I say things knowing full well people will get hurt from it though......
Yeeeaaaaahhhh that's a super cringy way of habit breaking. So, you like a girl but don't like her potty mouth, so you decide to literally break her mind so it'll bend to your ideals?
What is she, a dog?
Do you want a subordinate call you like that casually?
If a girl likes me and acts a certain way, I wouldn't try to change her because forcing someone to change their own self-image to suit one's needs is selfish. Likewise, I'd hate it if a girl I like tries to condition me out of a certain personality trait. The only time that sort of exercise should be allowed is if your partner feels something negative about themselves, or have a genuinely damaging aspect of their personality that they should ease up on. Being a potty mouth isn't necessarily bad, but a generally-awful attitude meant to make others feel worthless is the kind of trait you'd want to break someone away from*
(*Note: The last sentence is an example that doesn't reference Kasumi specifically)
I find it very difficult to sympathize with this Admiral. Not quite Hate Sink, but definitely in the Scrappy Radar for me.
Do you want a subordinate call you like that casually?
It doesn't necessarily follow that this is the only/best way to go about the goal of changing how she addresses you. If she really does care, just talking to her about it directly is likely to work, as is something more like instituting a "curse jar" to set up a gentler way to change her habits instead of outright trying to break her psyche, which can have lasting implications well beyond how she addresses you.
If a girl likes me and acts a certain way, I wouldn't try to change her because forcing someone to change their own self-image to suit one's needs is selfish. Likewise, I'd hate it if a girl I like tries to condition me out of a certain personality trait. The only time that sort of exercise should be allowed is if your partner feels something negative about themselves, or have a genuinely damaging aspect of their personality that they should ease up on. Being a potty mouth isn't necessarily bad, but a generally-awful attitude meant to make others feel worthless is the kind of trait you'd want to break someone away from*
(*Note: The last sentence is an example that doesn't reference Kasumi specifically)
I find it very difficult to sympathize with this Admiral. Not quite Hate Sink, but definitely in the Scrappy Radar for me.
Let's say, it's not my need. More like my sense of justice? I guess? It's like this, there's not just me and that person in this universe. I'm me so I don't mind whatever she says to me. But what about others? Generally speaking, it's not going to be good being how she is. People easily and will be taking it the wrong way. So that needs to go.
No need to go so far to condition it out of that person, I only need that person to see what it's like if they keep that up. Especially if that person holds me dearly. Even more so if they are obsessed with me. AKA, I'll use my life to handle any unfortunate tsundere, yanderes or whoever fancied me or at least somewhat matters to me. Not that it has been successful until now since others think I like bullying kids.
She was being a shit head, she got a taste of her own medicine and found it rather bitter. Certainly there is a line where you cross in bullying, but at the same time the lack of actual discipline and punishment inflicted on many modern kids is clearly a problem. I was a massive shit head as a teen. A "I had basically no friends and dropped out of school" tier shit head. Having grown out of my shit head phase I now have extremely little tolerance for it in others because I know it's a stupid self-destructive behavior that an overly coddling approach can very easily enable to fester.
On the other hand I also know that shit heads like myself can me impervious to any form of correction. Punishment is merely used to fuel anger and resentment, but constant forgiveness merely emboldens us to do whatever the hell we want with no concern for others or consequences. Dealing with shit head kids like myself can be extremely diffuclt for that reason, often there simply seems to be no right answer at all but to hope maybe they grow the fuck up. Some do, some don't and the later often have pretty crap lives overall.
She was being a shit head, she got a taste of her own medicine and found it rather bitter. Certainly there is a line where you cross in bullying, but at the same time the lack of actual discipline and punishment inflicted on many modern kids is clearly a problem. I was a massive shit head as a teen. A "I had basically no friends and dropped out of school" tier shit head. Having grown out of my shit head phase I now have extremely little tolerance for it in others because I know it's a stupid self-destructive behavior that an overly coddling approach can very easily enable to fester.
On the other hand I also know that shit heads like myself can me impervious to any form of correction. Punishment is merely used to fuel anger and resentment, but constant forgiveness merely emboldens us to do whatever the hell we want with no concern for others or consequences. Dealing with shit head kids like myself can be extremely diffuclt for that reason, often there simply seems to be no right answer at all but to hope maybe they grow the fuck up. Some do, some don't and the later often have pretty crap lives overall.
I myself see it that correction done right can help a bit. I myself was also like that in middle school. Skipping classes, breaking the glass on class' door, sending a classmate to hospital when fighting with another classmate... All kind of stuff. But my class', uhm... homeroom teacher, was it? at the time only gave me chances. 3, to be exact.
First was when I got failing marks on Math. 7 "1"s, out of 10. But she talked to math teacher to give me a chance, while still scold me like hell. So I got back every score having been called up to solve problems on board. Not that I wanted to get those scores back. They just arranged it by themselves.
Second, was with her own subject, Literature. No test was done with more than 1 page of poorly copied from text book I hid and peek during tests. But while scolding me, she went on teaching me supplements for a whole 4 years of middle school. So yeah, even if I really hated literature, with how long it was stuffed in to my head, I could at least do tests or exam at a normal level.
Third was with art. I was threatened to be kicked out for not even turning in my home work on art from the start of the school year to almost the end of that school year. She again, scold me while begged art teacher to give me one chance. Of course, she had me do all the works I failed to turn in. This time, yeah, I did and turned in every piece. Most of them got 8 our of 10, even though just 5 would have been enough for me to not be kicked out for failing the subject.
As I graduated from middle school, I got into a high school famous for delinquents and became well known there as "class representative" even though I never held such roles. Pretty much 180 degree turn there. That went to be solidified and is my personality now.
Well, now thinking back, I'm sure I didn't hear about stuff like "I could have just given him a 5 even if he just doodled on a paper and turned it in but he didn't even..." - "please give him a chance" from the security guards and sanitary workers in the school every day for no reason. They even talked about how the art teacher praised my works too.
There you see. Show the problem children where they were wrong, show them kindness by giving them chances while also make sure they know how hard it is to give them those chances should be a good and by my standard, "correct" way of correction. Would be more perfect if you slip in you have talents into it.
Do you want a subordinate call you like that casually?
Welp i do have a rude nickname but it just used when in non serious area I'd prefer my subordinate use it since they know why and i know why than a random ppl says that, since its will be twice more rude
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