Oh, man. It's that meme all over again Reimu - Will dominate you Youmu - Wants to be dominated Marisa - Will ask you to be gentle
Speaking of, I find it funny how often Marisa is given the most wholesome, cute or innocent portrayal when it comes to kink comparisons.
It's cute in a way; Marisa is the more social one but also kinda of a rowdy tomboy. So having her request be lovey-dovey would be her being vulnerable/showing weakness/however you call it.
Give her all the headpats and handholding she requests.
U-Um... The 90-minute lovey-dovey course with a cute boy...This is my first time in a lot of ways, so I'd like someone gentle and kind of soft, please...